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Secrets of body language
Justin Gul
growing popularity of NLP , issues related to influencing and making an impression on others, that the phrase "body language" no longer surprise anyone. We understand that perceive it as others we have an impact not only our external qualities, clothes, what we say but also how we move.
gestures, body movements are elements of nonverbal self-presentation, knowledge of which could prove invaluable. How great importance is the fact achieve the desired impression he knows anyone who has even once went for an interview.
What makes it among hundreds of candidates elected is the only one? More - how would you he was that person? Here, the action enters the body language, and the aim is that the employee competent, strong and effective, it is YOU!
From the moment when you cross the threshold of the company are working on an idea of \u200b\u200byour person. Not arms bullets, no sneaks around corners, just rolling with the boldly raised his head. To go to a prospective employer cabinet vigorously, erect and smiling. Squeeze the prospective boss's hand firmly and strongly, because the grip is characterized by a strong and open-minded person.
Sit on a chair (not bursting, but it did not grab the edge, because it will take you by the timid), and follow a conversation in the direction of the caller his whole body.
response questions do not throw the words themselves at a rate of machine gun fire, but also tempted not to extremes. Slow straining out the words will not be well received - you spend a sluggish and clumsy. When you speak, breathe evenly and freely. Sprawisz then the impression of a person calm, self-possessed and self-confident.
interview is stressful situation for even the greatest of the Stoics, and the tension, the nerves can easily betray the gestures of our hands. Do not talk money during the hands on his chest - it suggests that you are unapproachable. Treacherous is also a gripping hands nerve talking about how much you're scared and tense. Excessive gestures, in turn, will confirm a prospective employer in the belief that it is dealing with a person beaten and less credible.
Your gestures should be calm, balanced, carried out the palms. It's gestures of peace saying that you have nothing to hide, that we trust you.
Looking at the caller's face, try to stop your eyes on the eyes, mouth or a point on the forehead between the eyebrows. Persistent looking into the eyes is perceived as aggressive and defiant behavior. But do not turn your eyes pretending a sudden interest in the tips of shoes, because the boss will pick you as a person sad embarrassed and, in extreme cases - insincere. Avoid too
behavior - traps, such as rubbing the eyes, nose, hands covering paragraph leg flapping in the air. Although it will help you relieve accumulated tension in the body, you give up more as a person vulnerable to stress or impatient.
Remembering all those principles, rules, causing additional stress in you? First of all you have to be convinced that you really handle it and that you are great, a candidate for this position. This will give you confidence, and then all goes according to your expectations.
If, however, despite all the preparations are not hast to be THAT lucky, do not worry and do not give up. Consider these talks as a training which will allow you to analyze the mistakes made, the diagnosis of the situation. Because you're a perfect candidate for a future employee.
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Secrets of body language
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